Do One-on-Ones, Like a Boss

Are you getting the most out of your one-on-one meetings?

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There are millions of articles and books about the importance of one-on-ones for managers and leaders. When I was a new manager, it’s something I read about and put a lot of effort into. I didn’t feel like I was good at them, and I didn’t look forward to them.

But — like many things — the more you do them, the better you get. This is the story of things I’ve learned with time and experience.

Make Time to Prepare

This is the piece of the puzzle that I was missing for too long. The secret to good one-on-ones is preparation. Make it part of your morning routine to prepare for each one-on-on you have that day. Eliminate distractions and dedicate focus to each person you’re meeting with.

The secret to good one-on-ones is preparation.

How do you prepare for these meetings, though? It’s a combination of looking back and looking forward. Review notes from the previous meeting, reflect on interactions and contributions, and think about the person’s life outside of work.

First, you need to make sure you’ve dealt with anything you signed-up for last time to demonstrate accountability and build trust. If you missed…